Melik Patchadjian: I have a question ever since Father's Sunghwa ceremony.

Many members keep saying that Mother was absolutely united with Father and Christian Zwerger sent me a speech saying that it affirmed that True Parents achieved "ultimate unity". I found in this speech given the same year of Father's ascension, Father explains, The Sunghwa Ascension Ceremony:

Ladies and gentlemen, the word death is sacred. It is not a synonym for sadness and suffering. True Parents have created the term Sunghwa [ascension] to explain the true significance of death. The moment we enter the spirit world should be a time that we enter a world of joy and victory with the fruits born of our lives on earth. It is a time for those of us remaining on earth to send off the departed with joy. It should be a time for great celebration. We should be shedding tears of joy instead of tears of sadness. That is the way of the sacred and noble Sunghwa Ceremony, the first step the spirit of the departed takes toward enjoying eternal life in attendance to God, within His embrace. At the moment of death, our spirits should feel more excited and thrilled than a newlywed bride feels when she goes to her groom's home for the first time.

So it leads to my question that if Mother is the Messiah and she achieved ultimate unity with Father, and the "True Parents have created the term Sunghwa" then why was Mother so miserable and grieving at Father's Sunghwa instead of leading us into a joyful sendoff of our True Father who established that standard for the Seung Hwa ceremony?